Are Looks Important When Swinging?

Someones appearance is only part of the equation when it comes to swinging. While many say looks aren’t important, on some level it is what attracts us to others. However with this said, swingers are typically much more open minded than others, and you may be surprised at what some of them are into.

Everyone Is Welcomed

With swingers, all people regardless of color and body type are accepted. Many people are afraid to become part of the swinging community because they have hang ups about their body. The truth is, people are looking for open and new experiences at swingers meets, not supermodels. You will find men and women of all shapes, from thin to very large, and all races and nationalities. Many people just enjoy the act of swinging and blond, brunette, fat, or thin doesn’t matter much in the long run.

What’s Important

If you maintain your appearance and keep yourself clean and presentable, you will find swingers that are interested. Grooming and clothing become more important than your size or shape. The most important thing you can take with you is an open minded attitude.

Taking The Pressure Away

If you are still nervous about going to your first swingers meet, try to use a few swingers sites to find other swingers in your area. They can help you understand the lifestyle and make you more comfortable. You can use forums online too if you don’t want to meet people in person right away. Most forums are free, and you can access basic features on swingers sites for little to no money as well.

Posted in General at April 30th, 2011. No Comments.