Are Looks Important When Swinging?

Someones appearance is only part of the equation when it comes to swinging. While many say looks aren’t important, on some level it is what attracts us to others. However with this said, swingers are typically much more open minded than others, and you may be surprised at what some of them are into.

Everyone Is Welcomed

With swingers, all people regardless of color and body type are accepted. Many people are afraid to become part of the swinging community because they have hang ups about their body. The truth is, people are looking for open and new experiences at swingers meets, not supermodels. You will find men and women of all shapes, from thin to very large, and all races and nationalities. Many people just enjoy the act of swinging and blond, brunette, fat, or thin doesn’t matter much in the long run.

What’s Important

If you maintain your appearance and keep yourself clean and presentable, you will find swingers that are interested. Grooming and clothing become more important than your size or shape. The most important thing you can take with you is an open minded attitude.

Taking The Pressure Away

If you are still nervous about going to your first swingers meet, try to use a few swingers sites to find other swingers in your area. They can help you understand the lifestyle and make you more comfortable. You can use forums online too if you don’t want to meet people in person right away. Most forums are free, and you can access basic features on swingers sites for little to no money as well.

Posted in General at April 30th, 2011. No Comments.

Tips For Finding Local Swingers

Finding local swingers isn’t difficult if you know what to look for. Where you look and what you say will be important regardless of where you are. Here are some great tips that will help you find local swingers.

Tip 1 – Local Clubs

Finding swingers clubs in your area is a great way to find other local swingers. Most clubs have websites, and a lot of these sites have online communities for members. The forums will allow you to chat with other swingers in your area and potentially find people to hook up with. You can also go to singles events at the swingers clubs to meet other swingers. The singles events typically cost more, but would be a great way to find other locals to swing with.

Tip 2 – Set Up A Profile

Many swingers choose to keep their lifestyles much to themselves. For this reason many swingers will choose to swing outside their local community. This means you may have to try a little harder to find swingers locally. If you create an online profile on a swingers specific site you can find other locals, try a search by your area, for example if you live in Texas then try seraching for Texas Swingers. You may need to travel out side of your area with these people, but it will be easier to meet up with them and get to know them before you go to an event together. Keep your profile open and honest, and be clear about who you are and what you are looking for to achieve the best results.

Posted in General at December 17th, 2010. No Comments.