How Best To See If You Are Compatible With Matches

Finding potential matches is difficult enough on it’s own. But even after you agree to meet up with someone, the compatibility factor can become an issue. It would be great if you could get some of that out of the way before the first meeting. Fortunately, you can weed through people successfully before you waste time on meetings that won’t go anywhere.

Find Interests

Most people will list a few of their interests in their online profiles. This isn’t meant to be an all inclusive list, and will just highlight some of the important interests they have. If you share any of these, it can be a good building point. Many websites will allow you to narrow your searches by keyword, or by tagged interest. This could be a good way to find those who will have something in common with you.

Get The Basics Out Of The Way

When it comes to finding new relationships, many people have a list of ‘deal-breakers’. For some this could be drinking, smoking, or drug habits. For others it may be future wants, marriage status, or religion. Come up with your own list of things that you could never overcome, and get this out of the way early. If you run across a profile but they have something listed that is on the deal-breaker list, then you know you won’t be compatible and don’t have to waste time.  If none of these are listed in the profile, you can bring them up in messaging later. Avoid them in the initial message, but bring them up after a few messages have been exchanged.

Posted in Finding Swingers, Swingers in the US at February 26th, 2011. No Comments.

Are There A Lot Of Swingers In The US?

The short answer is yes, swinging is popular in the United States. While it remains more popular and acceptable in other countries, finding swingers in the US is not hard if you know where to look.

Actual Numbers

It’s difficult to get an accurate number for swingers in the US. Census records don’t ask this question, and many swingers are reluctant to come forward for surveys for fear of being outed as a swinger. There is still a stigma attached to the lifestyle. Some estimates are as high as 3 million, while others are much lower. The numbers are going to be higher in more metropolitan areas, but that’s just because the more people there are the more swingers there are bound to be.

Where To Find US Swingers

Finding swingers in the states is easy. While clubs aren’t as prevalent as they are in areas like Australia or the UK, most major cities have a few swingers clubs. Even some more rural areas will have events and meetings. Finding swingers in the US is actually simple. There are many websites set up for American swingers to meet one another without traveling. These are good places to meet others, get information about clubs in your area, and find out about local events. Many larger cities will host vacation style events as well. If a swinging vacation has ever appealed to you, the swingers sites can offer actual user reviews and cost information.

We surveyed one of the more popular swingers sites and calculated the percentage of members by State, California cam out on top, below is a list of states by percentage members, the highest ones at the top;

California Swingers – 11.6%
Florida Swingers – 7.3%
New York Swingers – 7.1%
Texas Swingers – 6.4%
Pennsylvania Swingers – 3.7%
Michigan Swingers – 3.7%
Illinois Swingers – 3.5%
Ohio Swingers – 3.4%
Georgia Swingers – 3.4%
North Carolina Swingers – 3.0%
Virginia Swingers – 2.8%
Massachusetts Swingers – 2.7%
Indiana Swingers – 2.7%
New Jersey Swingers – 2.5%
Missouri Swingers – 2.4%
Arizona Swingers – 2.3%
Washington Swingers – 2.1%
Alabama Swingers – 2.0%
Maryland Swingers – 1.9%
Tennessee Swingers – 1.8%
Kentucky Swingers – 1.7%
Louisiana Swingers – 1.6%
Minnesota Swingers – 1.5%
South Carolina Swingers – 1.4%
Colorado Swingers – 1.3%
Connecticut Swingers – 1.2%
Oklahoma Swingers – 1.2%
Wisconsin Swingers List – 1.2%
Oregon Swingers – 1.1%
Kansas Swingers – 0.9%
Nevada Swingers – 0.9%
Arkansas Swingers – 0.9%
Iowa Swingers – 0.9%
Utah Swingers – 0.8%
Mississippi Swingers – 0.8%
West Virginia Swingers – 0.6%
Idaho Swingers – 0.6%
New Hampshire Swingers – 0.5%
DC Swingers – 0.5%
Nebraska Swingers – 0.4%
Alaska Swingers – 0.4%
Maine Swingers – 0.4%
Hawaii Swingers – 0.4%
New Mexico Swingers – 0.4%
Montana Swingers – 0.3%
Delaware Swingers – 0.3%
Vermont Swingers – 0.3%
Rhode Island Swingers – 0.3%
South Dakota Swingers – 0.3%
North Dakota Swingers – 0.2%
Wyoming Swingers – 0.2%

Posted in Swingers in the US at November 10th, 2010. No Comments.